Meet your Coach!

Relationship coach specializing in Integrated Attachment Theory

About me

Aloha! I’m Roxy and I’m a certified Integrated Attachment Theory relationship coach who is passionate about helping people create relationships that will thrive.

I understand how frustrating it can be to have an insecure attachment style that keeps you stuck in negative patterns and unhealthy relationships.

I also know firsthand that transforming an insecure attachment style is possible, and I want you to experience the freedom and satisfaction that comes with becoming secure!

How it started

Psychology has always fascinated me, especially when it came to relationships. When I was young, I used to play matchmaker with my friends and lend a listening ear whenever they had relationship issues.

In 2014, my interest shifted towards personality typology and its significance in romantic relationships. I started attending personal development seminars and retreats in 2017, where I learned how my subconscious mind affected my life.

This newfound knowledge helped me make positive changes, but I still found relationships challenging.

relationships were hard

I used to be trapped in a cycle of breaking up and making up in my relationships. I thought it was normal for love to be a roller coaster ride with endless ups and downs.

However, I later realized that my insecure attachment style had been passed down from my family, leading to the development of a fearful-avoidant attachment style. As a result, my adult relationships were often chaotic and tumultuous.

I wanted CHANGE

After experiencing one final heartbreak, I decided to break the negative cycles in my life. I took charge of my healing and focused on transforming my insecure attachment style into a secure one.

I obtained certifications in Integrated Attachment Theory, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and I am currently pursuing other certifications as well.

Thanks to neuroscience, I was able to rewire my old patterns of thinking on a deep subconscious level. This allowed me to approach love and relationships with a more secure mindset.

transformed to secure

I went from being a fearful-avoidant to becoming secure and finally understood what a healthy relationship with a secure partner should look like.

I gained clarity on what I wanted, became confident, and learned to show up as the most authentic version of myself. I understood the power of vulnerability, setting healthy boundaries, and being interdependent.

I stopped personalizing people's behaviors and went from feeling stuck and frustrated to being more in control of my thoughts, feelings, and actions.

I stopped settling for emotionally unavailable, smothering, or growth-resistant partners. Healing my attachment style meant I could create a relationship rooted in confidence, free from insecurities.

you can become secure too!

Over the recent years, I've helped numerous people learn about their personality and attachment style and work to heal.

Transforming an insecure attachment style is achievable for anyone, and I am passionate about helping you start your journey towards becoming secure.

The proven methods in my course will empower you to become more skilled and confident, allowing you to experience the joy of fulfilling connections. By becoming secure, you can experience a relationship without feeling anxious, fearful, or avoidant.

Don't wait any longer - start your journey towards a secure you today!